From Being Half Filipino to Becoming a Filipina Expat Wife
In 2025, my husband was assigned to the Philippines.
This wasn’t a sudden surprise for us. We had talked about the possibility many times, so when the official notice came, we were prepared.
Still, as someone with a Filipino mother, I never quite imagined that in my late twenties I would actually be living in the Philippines.
It feels both familiar and strangely new at the same time.
As I accompanied my husband on his overseas assignment, I decided to take a leave of absence from my job and begin this new chapter of life here.
I’ve visited the Philippines many times to see my mother’s relatives.
I’ve stayed not only in hotels, but also at my grandmother’s house and at a home my mother purchased locally.
So it has never felt like a completely unknown country to me.
Growing up, I naturally learned about the cultural differences between Japan and the Philippines through my mother.
Because of that, I wouldn’t say I felt strong anxiety about living abroad.
And yet, actually living here is different.
The outlines of this country — which I thought I already understood — are slowly being redrawn through everyday life.
Small discoveries, unexpected moments, and ordinary routines are reshaping my perspective little by little.
Since this opportunity has come my way, I want to cherish my time here.
I hope to connect with many people in the Philippines and truly experience life in this place.
I’d like to document this chapter of my life honestly and thoughtfully, without trying to be anything more than who I am.